By Claire van den Heever.
It wasn't terribly lonh ago that marriage in China was for life. For women, it often bore more resemblance to a life sentence: once you entered into a marriage, you relinquished your rights to your husband and his family, and served them as they saw fit. Divorce was shameful for women, and those few who did manage to successfully secede from their husbands were labelled po xie (old shoe). Because of the accompanying stigma, second marriages were neither very likely nor without problems of their own, and were perhaps only as problematic as remaining single...